5 Shocking Facts About Saving Your Relationships.

How To Save Your Relationship With such a large amount of time being spent with another person, it's a given that you are going to clash now and again. Sometimes, however, the fighting gets so bad that one or the other of you may decide to quit your relationship altogether. So how do you save a relationship that seems to be headed down the toilet?

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1) Recognize Reality:  The first thing you have to do is recognize why you are fighting. Are you fighting because you are truly mad at each other, or are you fighting because you are upset that some jerk at your office accused you of something you did not do?  You live together and are friends so it makes sense that you take out your moods and pent-up emotions on each other.  However, this can cause a lot of problems. Before your anger escalates to the boiling point, stop and figure out exactly why you are angry. If you are frustrated about something at work, let your lover know. They are the person you should be able to turn to when things are not going the way you want them to. 

2) Find the Calm: The calmer you are, the more likely your spouse will be to take you seriously. People are more likely to listen to the words of a calm person than they are to someone who will not stop ranting and raving. One way in which you can learn to remain calm is to take up meditation or yoga. Simple breathing techniques that are taught in these disciplines can help you to learn to stay calm, even in the midst of a really difficult argument. When you learn these breathing techniques and applied it you may be able to stave off the argument entirely which is one way to help save your relationship.

 3) Agree to Disagree:  No two people are going to agree on everything all of the time. It would be a pretty boring world if we all did! Take the case of one of my male friends. He believes that his daughter should not have earrings until she is 14, while his wife believes that she should be allowed to have them anytime after the age of four. This is an argument that threatened to tear them apart. Finally, they both agreed to disagree about the earring situation. He figured out that, when she got older, she would convince him herself. Sometimes you have to put aside your own strong feelings and realize that your partner has strong feelings as well. It is perfectly all right to agree to disagree! 

4) Teamwork:  Instead of fighting against each other, come together and work for, or against, something. If you have children, work toward giving them the best life you can give them. If you are against something in your town, work toward getting it resolved. If you are into sports, join a team together. The couple that plays together, stays together!

5) Dance and Romance:  When my girlfriend and I first got together, we used to spend hours just talking late at night. the next morning we would both be exhausted from the time we spent awake chatting with each other.  As our relationship got further we realized that we never stayed up talking anymore. One evening the music was on and I grabbed her and started dancing around the room with her. The simple act made us happy and made us realize how much we loved just being in each other's arms. 

Dance and romance your partner. Sometimes swaying slowly together in a darkened room is one of the nicest ways to reconnect.  Relationships are tricky things. When you put two people together for a very long time somewhere, they are bound to fight and bicker. If the bickering gets bad enough, things can disassemble quite quickly. Find ways to show your lover how much you care about them. Put silly little love notes in their lunch box. Write a message in the steam on the bathroom mirror, so that the next time they take a shower they will see the message.  Grab some lipstick and write I love you on their car window while they are at work or busy doing something else Realize that nobody is perfect, and focus more on reconnecting with your loved one rather than winning a battle.

You CAN get your Man or Woman to fall back in love with you and save your Marriage (or Relationship!) no matter how difficult your love relationship circumstances are, and no matter how far your lover is away from you! If you sincerely believe in your heart that BOTH of you are meant to be together, learn my methods and strategies to save your own Relationship and get your lover back TODAY!
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